Re: are you better or worse

I send them the information and they look over it and make sure everythin=
g=20
is done right and then they send it to the court for me then the court se=
nds=20
me a notice and i have to pay the court 209.00 and then they will send me=
=20
the date when the 341 will be held and what not. i like what you said abo=
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the partner thing. I'm going to have to plagurize you on that hehe. Thank=
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for the support and I wish you only the best, I believe you'll do great t=
oo.

Nina



From: "Bobbie Bachman"
Reply-To:
To:
Subject: RE: are you better or worse
Date: Mon, 15 Dec 2003 09:39:02 -0500

No it is not normal. Did they fill them out for you? You can get he for=
ms
on line and do them yourself but if they filled them out and there was a =
lot
to it then it isn=81ft as bad. It is over though you did it and just did=
n=81ft
know. Hey, we all do things like that and Motherhood Inc. was not to kin=
d
to you. I would tell them too. I cannot afford a lawyer, I am disabled
from a work related injury and worker=81fs compensation has paid me about=
10
months worth of pay in over 2 years now. I am going to go to court Feb.
2004 and hopefully it will be over with and they have to pay me back pay.
She I am hoping to buy time and see if the court will allow me to start
paying in March 2004. I doubt they will but I will at least get a loan f=
rom
a friend to keep my house if I need to. I have been reduced to being
disabled and on welfare which will only give me food stamps and some
medical. I was making 59,000.00 a year until I was injured at work. So,=
it
sucks both ways. But, I don=81ft give up easy and will not lose what I h=
ave I
will fight to the bitter end if that is what it takes. See what I have i=
s
what I have earn and worked for no one else and it will go to my children
PERIOD. LOL See, we are women we are strong just keep that in mind and
don=81ft back down. Tell your husband to give up the cash a little more =
since
you are not working due to carrying his child. You should at least get s=
ome
money from him other than what you have gotten in the past. Your situati=
on
is the same as my friend=81fs and I will never understand it if you are m=
y
partner than be my partner. But, right now my partner is unable to help =
me
he has just gone back to work. He worked the same place I did and was hu=
rt
also had 3 surgeries to date and needs at least one more. He had to go t=
o
work because I cannot. He will have to get his surgery after I get my ba=
ck
pay. Long story but when it rains it pours. You just have to BUCK up an=
d
take it (as I sit in my chair crying LOL). Good Luck you will do fine.
Bobbie



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